There are simple mistakes that are taking your relationship downhill. This article talks about common mistakes men make in bed that women hate. Knowing these will improve your sex game and intimacy with your women.
1. NOT SPENDING ENOUGH TIME ON FOREPLAY
You kiss her for 5 seconds, suck one of her nipples, and before she realizes it, your dick is out, and you’re ready to penetrate her. That’s not the way to go. Unlike men, women need at least 20 minutes of good foreplay before they can be turned on and ready for sex. Don’t rush her. Take your time with her body. Make sure she is adequately wet before progressing any further.
2. BEING SILENT OR EMOTIONLESS DURING SEX
How would you feel if your woman stays quiet during sex? I’m sure you would feel you’re not doing something right. The same way it is for women. Some men think groaning or moaning is a sign of weakness or femininity. On the contrary, this takes your sex game to a new level. Let her know you’re enjoying it. Moan in her ears, whisper sweet things in her ears. Men moaning during sex drive women crazy. Doing this will let her know whether you are enjoying it or not. Staying silent gives her no clue how it’s going.
3. EXCESSIVE THRUSTING OR GOING TOO FAST.
Stop pounding her like a carpenter hitting a nail. You will cum quickly —(Here are six tips to help you last longer in bed) but she’s most likely not going to enjoy it, and it can be painful. To make sex feel more pleasurable and memorable for her, try slow and rhythmic thrusts. Then as she’s feeling it, from her moans and body language, you can know when to when increasing your speed till you both climax together.
4. ATTACKING HER CLITORIS
Fellas, the clitoris is not a DJ booth. It’s not a scratch-and-win. RELAX. You have to use the clitoris or it will lose its function or shrink but be gentle with it. Also, avoid rubbing her clitoris with dry hands because friction can be very painful. You can touch the lips of the vagina, then transfer your wet fingers to the clitoris to make the clitoris slippery. Nothing will rock her mind like rubbing the clitoris gently with wet fingers.
5. BEING AGGRESSIVE WITH HER BOOBS
Stop turning and twisting her nipples like a radio dial. Stop squeezing her boobs aggressively. Stop chewing her nipples when you suck them. The breast is a sensitive part of the female body and can feel very painful when it is manhandled. It is yours already. Don’t rush it. Be gentle with it.
6. BEING SELFISH IN BED
All you care about is your orgasm, and once you cum, you jump out of bed. That is the end of intimacy for you, leaving your woman feeling used and unsatisfied. Make it your job to make your woman cum first or satisfy her enough before penetrating her.
7. PUSHING HER HEAD DOWN WHEN SHE’S GIVING YOU A BLOW JOB.
We know you’re feeling it but grabbing her head and pushing it down forcefully is a turn-off for most women. Let her go at her own pace and do her thing. Don’t get me wrong, it’s alright to respectfully instruct her on how you can enjoy it more, but forcing it down her throat is just not it for most women.
8. LEAVING THE BED IMMEDIATELY AFTER EJACULATING
After sex, women are very emotional. Before you rush to the bathroom to wash up, spend a few minutes cuddling and kissing your woman. It goes a long way to build sexual satisfaction, intimacy, and trust.
