The search for sexual satisfaction or pleasure is the key motivating factor for engaging in any sexual activity, including sex, oral sex, and even kissing. So what is the point of having sex if you do not get to climax anyway? According to research, 90 % of men experience orgasms in intercourse, compared to 50% of women who enjoy orgasms during sex. Concerning these statistics, it can be established that more men enjoy sex than women. There are several reasons these men profit more than women with sexual satisfaction.
The benefits of orgasm go beyond sexual relief, it can improve your overall health and wellness.
HEALTH BENEFITS OF ORGASM
- Reduces stress and anxiety
- Improves mood and relays depression
- Boosts self-confidence and esteem
- Orgasm prevents medical disorders like prostate cancer and heart disease.
- Orgasm alleviates pain such as headaches and menstrual cramps.
- Boosts fertility in women.
- Improve the immune system.
- Frequent orgasm makes you more attractive.
REASONS WHY PEOPLE MAY NOT EXPERIENCE ORGASM DURING SEXUAL ACTIVITY
- YOU ARE NOT DRINKING ENOUGH WATER
When you do not drink enough water, You find it difficult to get wet, which can lead to painful sex.
2. YOU ARE ANXIOUS AND UNRELAXED DURING SEX
You are probably worried about not getting pregnant or getting an STI. Or you are concerned about the taste and smell of your vagina. To have an orgasm, you have to let go and be focused.
3. YOUR OXYTOCIN LEVEL IS TOO LOW
When you are too stressed out, your oxytocin level drops, and experiencing an orgasm becomes difficult.
4. YOU LACK BODY CONFIDENCE
If you do not feel good about yourself, you are less likely to feel good during sex
5. YOU ARE EXPERIENCING PAINFUL SEX
When you are experiencing pain and discomfort during sex, it makes it incredibly difficult to have an orgasm.
6. YOU ARE NOT WET ENOUGH
Lack of lubrication makes sex less enjoyable and makes having an orgasm difficult. So, always make sure to make use of lube.
7. YOU DO NOT MAKE NOISE OR MOAN DURING SEX
Not being vocal or expressive during sex can make having an orgasm difficult.
8. YOU ARE PUTTING TOO MUCH PRESSURE ON YOURSELF TO HAVE AN ORGASM
Or your partner is putting too much pressure on you. Either way, when your mind is too focused on having an orgasm, it becomes difficult to have it.
9. Most women are more concerned with pleasing their partner rather than attaining personal sexual satisfaction.
10. Genetics
Some people are born to naturally derive more sexual satisfaction, while others are not.
11. Past Experiences
Lack of trust and vulnerability from previous relationships can limit your presence during sex.
12. Mentality
Some people, especially women, view sex negatively. For example, they believe sex symbolizes a loss of control and vulnerability hence sex should be avoided at all costs.
13. Societal Norms
In some cultures, it is believed that it is not a woman’s place to enjoy sex, just a man's.
14. Medical Conditions like depression, arthritis, Vaginismus, gynecological infections, and vulvovaginal atrophy can cause a lack of orgasm.
15. Lack of Knowledge or experience.
Experience is the best teacher. You can practice other words, masturbate more, discover what you like and do not like then discuss your sexual preference with your partner. That is one way for your partner to please you.
