It's the day of love again, the time to show your special someone how much they mean to you. One way to show love on valentine's day is to spend quality time with your partner. When it comes to the perfect date, you plan to fail if you fail to plan. The truth is that everyone wants to give their partner the best experience on valentine's day, and planning puts you a step ahead than just going with the ‘flow’. There are many mistakes men make in bed with their partners, but in this article, I have compiled a list of ways to be intimate with your partner without sex this valentine's. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with sex on a valentine's day. On the contrary, it’s the ultimate form of intimacy you can think of. But these steps will not only create a spark between you two but will also make your relationship stronger than before.
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TOUCH AND TEASE EACH OTHER OFTEN
Hold hands, hug each other, stroke your partner’s cheeks, play with their hair, tickle them, playfully bite them. Touch is a love language, and making use of it will let your partner know that you want them. Touching each other also brings you closer. I have never heard of any successful relationship that thrives without these little cheeks. Grab every little opportunity to touch your partner.
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SHOWER OR BATHE TOGETHER
Take the time to bathe and wash each other’s bodies. Make sure there’s music playing in the background while you do that. You can kiss, and make out in the shower as well. Another thing you can do in the shower is water play. This makes your time together funny and exciting.
- GIVE EACH OTHER A MASSAGE
Take your time to explore every part of your partner’s body as you massage them. It can either be a sensual massage. Sensual massage is the use of your hands and other body parts to stimulate your partner sexually. It’s one of the best ways to connect and ignite intimacy.
- WATCH MOVIES TOGETHER
It doesn't have to be a romantic movie. It could be an action movie or a Korean drama your partner is always talking about. You can watch this together in bed or in any way comfortable for you two. Get the popcorn, drinks, and other extras at the side. Discuss the movies as you go, and lightly touch each other along with the movie.
- LISTEN TO MUSIC THAT CONNECTS YOU
Vibe to a song together. It could be any artist you both like or a sex playlist. While listening to the song, you can combine any of the tips listed in this article, including dancing together, touching each other, or giving and receiving a sensual massage.
- DANCE TOGETHER
One secret to successful relationships is doing the little things together, like dancing. It doesn't even have to be a romantic song or dance, just anything that radiates joy and happiness. You can also do a TikTok dance together or just grind on each other to a slow, sensual beat.
- LOOK INTO EACH OTHER’S EYES FROM TIME TO TIME
Maintain deep and long eye contact for at least 1 minute. The way to someone’s heart and soul is through the eyes. Looking straight into your partner’s eyes is a great way to communicate your feelings without saying a word. As you look into his/her eyes you can smile (smile with your eyes). This creates an atmosphere of closeness and intimacy. Try it.
- CUDDLE
Lay together in each other's arms in a comfy bed, and enjoy your bodies. As you cuddle, listen to your partner’s heartbeat, feel their body temperature, and feel their breaths and gist with each other.
